We had a pretty low-key weekend. And it started early - Xander and I both took the day off on Friday so that he could see the doctor. (He has a sinus infection.). Since we were already out in town, which is an hour drive for us, we did the grocery shopping too. Gotta save that gas where we can!
The Scarecrow Fest in Stamford was supposed to be Saturday, but they worried about rain (it didn't) so they switched it to Sunday (it rained that day instead). Saturday we make a quick run to the library and the dollar store so Xander could pick out more Halloween decorations for our house. He had a great time decorating, and then needed to take half of them down at bedtime because they were too scary.It was an especially nice day for Xander, though, because he got to see some of his old daycare buddies. And most especially his pal Brandon, who he has been missing like crazy. Plus I got to hang out with my boy for a couple of fun hours before the skies opened and everyone got drenched. :)



He went through the obstacle course countless times, with all the climbing and sliding and bouncing. Xander wasn't too interested in the bounce houses, though he tried out each one, but he loved the big slide. And at one point he climbed into the lap of an elderly man (on oxygen, no less!) who was using one of those scooters. The gentleman was nice enough to give Xander a quick buzz around the parking lot while I died of embarrassment!
I was really glad that Xander was able to have so much fun, so unexpectadly! Sometimes when it's just the two of us it's easier to take advantage of these moments. And I'm doubly glad that we hadn't used up all the pictures on his disposable camera before we got there!!
It was also the quest to see how many flowers he could pick for me, which was very cute. Xander was bravely crossing ditches and climbing steep inclines to get me the best wildflowers he could grab. Then he totally swiped my camera and took some of his own adventuring pictures. And yes, we did finally find the waterfall (or green metal gate, whatever you want to call it!).

It was a very nice wedding, and I really liked the color of the bridesmaid dresses. Xander did very well - it was his fourth wedding, so he's an old pro! He sat quietly, ate some fruit snacks, and told me frequently that he was starving and when could we go to the reception. And actually, we made a pit stop at Stewart's on our way to the reception to get some snacks, because we were all hungry!
We were invited back to Destiny's place after the reception, but we were too tired. It was a good day, though. And I know how much Joe likes reconnecting with that side of his family. Still two more cousins to get married!


All morning I sat at work, anxious on Xander's behalf. Was everything going okay? Was he nervous? Did he make some friends? He'd been excited to buy breakfast at school, and we'd packed his Incredible Hulk lunchbox, but did he have any trouble? Well, I found out at 11am!
Here's hoping that today is a better day! So far, so good...no calls from the school! When he gets home today, Joe will get him off the bus and then entertain him until I get home. Xander's ideas for ways to spend time with Daddy today included the following: puzzles, read book, color, play video games, play with the knights, and have snacks. Too funny!
Yesterday, Krissy and the kids came over. Xander wanted to take his cousins to the playground at his school, so that's where we went. They had a pretty good time running around and making up games to play. Carlyn was a little bored - it's hard to be the oldest! - but she killed time by reading and working on weaving pot holders.
Stay tuned for tomorrow - Xander's first day of Kindergarten! If I can stop crying long enough to get to work, I'll post the pictures!
